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Dude so much yes to this. The being seen (repeatedly at the same place) is crucial. I’ve made that mistake before just in moving to a city where I didn’t know anyone, I’d go places, meet ppl, but rarely ever the same place twice so I had all these ppl I “knew” but had no actual bond with - I never slowed down. There’s a lot of conditioning to confront within myself at least - but now?

Just going to one open mic a week for the past two weeks (it’s gonna continue fkn indefinitely) has already led to incredible enrichment and meeting dope like minded ppl. Farmers markets are the shit,events and street fairs, getting to know local venues, yoga classes, shooting range, and making the effort to spend time w ppl IRL (just got home from a nearly 4 hour long dinner with a friend) is huge.

The community church I recently got involved with has stuff they do every week night that isn’t worship related (meaning not like a Sunday service) and that’s dope too.

The being seen part is huge. I went into survival mode a while ago and became avoidant and reclusive without realizing it so this is why I’ve referred to it as a spiritual prison break. I love this post so much.

At the end of the day, it’s the face to face connections in our community that create true resilience - the internet and phones will never come close to that. This is one of the most important messages of our time - thank you. Let us remember what it is to “human” - we are tribal/ communal creatures! 🙏

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Great ideas in the post and in the comments. I’ve avoided big box stores and most chains for several years. And I make it a point to use cash at all my local stores. (And, yes, I do pay a little more than I would at a big box store!) As an eighty year old widow on a fixed income, I still feel it’s better for my children’s children for me to do with a little less so that they can have a chance to escape the unpleasant future which the global cartel has planned.

I believe in the power of ONE: a single individual taking a stand for what he/she believes is right. That example strengthens others to do the same. Thus we slowly make the world better. We didn’t get into this situation overnight, and we won’t get out of it easily. But if we all do our best consistently, ultimately we’ll defeat those who would enslave us.

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